17 Sep 2012
I've evolved my reading list so far that right now I'm reading about relationships, instead of business, programming or some other shits.
I vividly remember a friend suggested that I should start reading about how to maintain a long-term relationship.
“I can mend your broken heart” is about how to recover from a break-up. Ironically, it just taught me about how bad I used to treat my ex. Mostly, the bad behavior is rooted from my enormous ego.
One of the generalized behaviors is that when I'm not wrong, I'll argue and need to win it. The behavior, I've realized, was absolutely unnecessary. People make mistakes, just let them go, and enjoy a richer experience in a relationship.
I'm getting better and better at not winning an argument.
The catch here is that you have to deal with the feeling after you don't win an argument when you're right.
Anyway, I think one of the keys in a relationship is how to resolve an argument where the two of you want totally different minor things. Please note that if it is major, you guys should break up…
One of these days I will come up with a system that works.